[Jaguar]

I don't see how your question could offend anyone, but I can't help but wonder is your lack of feeling is because of a lack of acceptance of your body as the biological sex you are. I can imagine the difficulty of being a person of one sex in the body of another, but you are what you are physically and you're a valuable human that way.

[Just some random thought: I've never liked the idea of sex-change surgery. I've never talked to anyone who had it about it, even though I know one. To me it just seems like mutilation and may have something to do with anger at being born the wrong sex.]