Re: Dating someone older - 8 years -
May 7th 2012, 08:46 PM
Is it WRONG for the two to date? Well, who am I to judge right or wrong? So I can't really vote in this poll. However, this is my opinion:
There are a lot of problems in this situation. The age gap completely harms your ability to see eye to eye, your long distance makes a starting relationship difficult, and your age makes it illegal in most areas to engage in anything sexually, which as much as it's not necessary in a relationship it is helpful and does have an importance in most relationships. I really would reconsider this. Normally, I'm all for age gaps. However, there are just a lot of issues with this. If you think he's the one, then I'm all for waiting until you're old enough for sexual contact and keeping the relationship distance, then that's fine. But really think about this: If you have to lie to your parents for four years, is this really worth it?
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