Like they said you cant force someone to have feelings for you and you just havent found the right girl is all true. Being yourself is the best way to find a girl. But there are ways to make yourself more of an appealing guy. Being the best you that you can be. Don't censor yourself and dont apologize for who you are. But why not try meeting girls you dont know. Im sure though out the day you see alot of girls you want to meet why not go up and meet them aswell. I could write essays and stuff on how to do all of it. But dont have that kind of time
If you want more knowledge on that send me a message.
But like I was saying being your natural self is the best way to find girls that like you. The most overused advice ever but its very true.