too scared to join societies... but really lonely -
April 29th 2012, 10:39 PM
i'm currently finishing my 2nd year of uni.
I really struggle to make friends. I live with people and we all get on well, but i just really struggle to socialise.
I spend all my time on my own, which makes me really depressed, leading me to not want to see anyone.
I know the best way to meet new people and to keep myself busy is to join some socieities. But i'm absolutely petrified. Everyone knows each other already and i couldnt bear just walking in.
And even if i wait til next year when theres loads of new people, i'm still too scared. I don't know how to walk into a room of people that i don't know, and talk to people. I just get so anxious.
Any help?
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