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Re: Isolating in College (now with roommates!) -
April 28th 2012, 10:10 AM
Hey,
it's pretty natural to need space and isolate yourself when you're going through stuff like this - chances are you probably just need some rest and some space for your head, so to speak. When I've lived with other people I've often isolated myself as a way to deal with things, I find other people can get very stressful. I re-appear when things calm down though, much as you are likely to do.
Consider getting a whiteboard for your door or some post-it notes - that way you can communicate with your housemates without having to actually come right out and talk to them. You can leave messages saying things like you're tired, or studying, or simply need some space right now and not to worry.
You could also leave the option there for them to organise to hang out with you and get to know you a little bit - just maybe half an hour a week that you can commit to, and doesn't interfere too much with your study and settling in to a new place.
Moving house is always difficult and it's just unfortunate that it's come at the time of your finals, which I can imagine are also very stressful. You'll get through this, and by the time finals are over, you'll probably find you've settled in well and get along with the people you live with.
Best of luck
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