[Bethie]

Look mate, you're only nineteen and very clearly scared out of your mind about having a kid. How will it change your life? How can you ever prepare yourself for it? There's a million and one questions i'm sure going on in your head. You seem like a nice guy, you've said you love your fiancee and the bottom line is your situation is hardly an uncommon one. This child is your resposibility and yeah the timing sucks, and yeah you're not ready. However plenty of men feel like this regardless of age, but the majority of the time when that little child is born which is half theirs and half the person they love the most they realise it doesn't matter they weren't prepared.

It's not about being perfectly mature now, it's about getting to that point so when you do become a father you can cope with it, which i don't doubt you will.