Thank you for the help and stuff. She realizes that its disturbing for me to look at and hear. Its hard to look at her arm and to see it. The relationship she had with a guy before me is when it started going downhill. She accidently cheated on him and he would not stop calling her names and stuff. So she carved what he said on her thigh. Which is also disturbing. cause that will be there for life as a reminder. Ill try to get through this with her cause we both love eachother and i dont want to loose another girl in my life. Thanks for the input
