[dani99]

First of all, do you really blame her? In the beginning, you probably made her feel a lot worse than she deserved, and as a girl: I could understand why she isn't over it completely. But that was a long time ago, and you've seemed to have changed. Do you compliment her often? Tell her she's the most beautiful girl you've ever seen?

If she isn't in the mood for sex, then she just isn't in the mood. I remember for a long long time with my boyfriend, I wanted sex but refrained from it because I felt uncomfortable with how I look. If I were you, I wouldn't push the issue with her and force her. It may end up making things worse. If you love her, then respect her feelings and understand that she just doesn't want to. It's probably not a matter of cheating, but like you said - she just doesn't like the way her body looks.

Instead, spend more time making her feel like she's beautiful and sexy. Call her a mix of beautiful, sexy, and cute through the next few weeks. Tell her that you like how she looks in certain clothes. After a while, it'll boost her confidence up and in the long run, you might get sex more than you do now and a more confident girlfriend.