Drugs and dependency in relationships are never a good thing. Things just usually end up getting really messy and end in heartbreak.

It's awesome that this person treats you well and respects you and values you for who you are. That's how friends should be.

However, the problem comes when that person is the only thing holding you up. When you feel like that person makes you whole, or that you need them to get by. They become a drug in and of themselves, and they are only human. What's going to happen when you get in a fight, or when he is really upset about something? What are you going to do? Most likely, you are going to fall right down with him, because he's the only thing you stand on.

I really recommend taking a step back from this, because it's only going to get harder to disentangle yourself the further you get into it. You need to keep away from drugs, not because he stops you or gives you something to stay clean for, but because YOU want to for your own health and wellness. You need to be in a relationship with him because you enjoy his company and companionship, NOT because you need him to even feel happy. Most of all, you need to be able to value yourself on your own, because if you don't you are not going to be able to have a successful relationship.

I know it's hard to hear these things at fourteen, and I know it's hard to think this probably isn't going to last forever. It probably won't, though that doesn't mean you can't have a wonderful experience and learn and grow and share happiness with someone.

But none of that's going to happen as long as he's your drug. You have to find your own way to battle your addictions. I promise, your life will seem brighter once you do.