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Re: dating a guy who uses illegal substances? - March 6th 2012, 07:44 PM
If you used a lot of drugs (esp. at 14), chances are you have issues with dependency...in general. So, it follows that you'd be so absorbed by this guy. That's a warning to you that the genie might still be out of the bottle, and that needing him as intensely as you do is not such a good thing AND being with someone who you feel so strongly about AND uses is double trouble, right? So, the best advice one can offer is that maybe before you jump into this you should sort out your dependency issues so you can retain some perspective..and self control. Otherwise, you might find yourself back in that hole again...if not with drugs, then with needing him.