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Re: dating a guy who uses illegal substances? - March 6th 2012, 06:30 PM
I'm not in the same situation, but I can understand. My girlfriend drinks alcohol, and I'm highly against it. The bottom line is that...I either have to put up with it, or put out. I fell in love with her before I found out that she liked alcohol so it's a situation where I either have to learn to accept it, or move on to someone else. If I love my girlfriend and she loves me too, she's willing to compromise: I tell her to not drink in front of me, and...sometimes she has, forgetting that it makes me upset, and throws it out, and I've recently asked her to not call me unless it's an emergency when she celebrates her 21st birthday in May.

Just an idea from personal experience...