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Originally Posted by the_lostone

I had her call the kid tell him that what happened last night was only a mistake (yeah she got his number) and i told her that she is not going out to any partys any more with her slut friends (which they are) without me.

Wow, and you don't sound controlling at alll. :/ Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you haven't been wronged, but based on what I've read from this you guys shouldn't be together. She sounds like she's definitely the weaker one in the relationship, and needs time to gain some independence and security within herself but I don't think she's going to do it with a boyfriend with your kind of personality. You should find someone that is more secure and therefore less likely to behave like she has towards you.