[minniemouseprincess]

Originally Posted by onlyfoolingmyself

Thank you so much and I'm sorry to hear that you are going through the exact same thing.. 3 years ..wow. :x Can imagine how hard it has to be for you.

I'll never give up on him,no worries It's just so hard for me to see him suffering and I feel so helpless. He was the one who told ME to stop and now I am telling him.. Odd.
Dunno but I feel guilty. Maybe if I hadn't told him about SH he wouldn't have started with it at all..

Yeah, its been a long time, but i'm holding up okay. It used to be a lot rougher on me. Kinda like the way you feel now. It IS hard to watch and I am no stranger to the hopeless feeling ether. I feel that every time she's upset for any reason and whenever I see her scars. I looked at her arm from kinda far away today because her sleeves were up for the first time in a while and thankfully, I didn't see anything. But I won't feel totally comforted until she isn't wearing long sleeves anymore=( And hun, don't feel guilty. He isn't SHing because of you. He has things going on that he feels he can't handle. Thats why he's doing it. You aren't the reason. Never were the reason. Its good you told someone about your SHing. I would have gone to my best friend about it too if I was.