Thanks very much Yogi. You're right and I knew it was messed up. After a couple replies to my post on whether it was cheating, I saw that the semantics weren't the issue. I acted like an asshole.
I posted this question because I did apologize. We texted yesterday. I'm trying to get some opinions from the ladies on what her response might be. Thanks for being around here for knuckleheads like me...
EDIT: I wasn't clear about the party... It hasn't happened yet... Doesn't change much in my mind though, might make me look worse.