Re: Lonely -
February 4th 2012, 12:08 AM
I think if you're willing to change some things that may seem to be turning guys off, then you should do it, but don't change too many things. Things like personality and posture are good to change, not just to get guys, but to maybe make yourself feel better.
I have a lot of confidence issues, but I'm working through them. One thing I'm trying to do is to laugh a bit more and try to get my opinion or even a joke across, not worrying about what others will think. It's very hard, considering that the people I hang out with make fun that I stumble over my words and mess things up a lot.
Though, because I've started to act like this, girls start a conversation with me sometimes and it usually goes pretty well. I've slowly been seeing improvement. The only huge problem I have now is talking to a girl that I like. I can barely even get a sentence out.
I wish you very good luck and try to take things slow. You'll most definitely see some improvement, as I have.
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