[Chris]

I agree. You cant always wait for guys to approach you. Yes, its traditional that they are the ones to act first, but thats be honest here - we aren't living in those kinds of times anymore. We ALL have to act on things - especially on relationships and making them.

In my personal opinion; Guys wont approach girls for many different reasons.

-They may not be physically attractive.
-They may be hanging around other males
-They may be acting stuck up
-They may be excluding themselves at a party; sitting in a corner.
-They may seem to lack confidence. Yes, alot of guys are attracted to confidence aswell.
-They may not be socially active, but yet just sitting down.
-They may simply just not be that persons type.
-They may not like someones appearance, or they way they present themselves.

Remember, guys (and girls) for the most part, unfortunately judge by appearance (especially in teen and young-adult years). So those people who may have a great personality, but maybe just don't have a good appearance, may be waiting awhile longer for a partner.

Also remember, first impressions usually have a huge impact on choices males and females make (like introducing themselves); so its best to always be on your top game.




Best wishes,
Chris