I'm just wondering is he at all
lgbt?
I was just wondering? Well my bf and I have dated and all. People tend to think he's gay. He dates girls though never been with a guy openly. He's gay friendly though. He's not a mean person to anyone. Well we've dated since september on and off not exclusively. Well on our date he dresses like a girl. He wears skirts and fancy blouses even once a tube top heels wears make up lipstick always matches nails outfit and sometimes hair color. His hair is always styled platnum blond and pink chin legnth. He actually looks a lot more like a girl than a guy. His body shape. Like when we go out dating he appears to have real breasts and he has long femme shaped legs and wide hips along with a slim waste that give him the bottom shape of an hourglass. He even sounds like a girl and has no hair. He also likes ballet and writing. He has some friends and all are girls. When we're together I feel more like I'm with a girl not that it's bad. It's just the way it seems to be I love him every bit the same. Besides his height and other parts, he seems like mostly feminine like a girl in so many ways... He is fine with the male pronouns and his masculine name. At school people think he's gay he doesn't do half the things I described. Like at school he wears clothing that don't essentuate his feminine features even though he still wears femme clothing. People just think feminine means gay it doesn't to me. It seems he may be trans. Up until last week. I am now confused a bit. Well we've had sexual contact kind of and thing is he didn't seem to enjoy it like it went really bad. He said because he is asexual because he was sexually abused and that he doesn't like sex because of bad memories. My question is is this just an excuse? Is that more likely? Or is it more likely he's just gay and doesn't get sexual pleasure from me? Also is he trans? He doesn't say he's at all
lgbt. But technically isn't he??