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From your girlfriends side ... I'm quite passive in bed. I do feel bad about it. But I feel totally inexperienced compared to my boyfriend and I'm scared I'll do something wrong or it won't feel good for him and i'll feel embarrassed and stupid. (However I've actually told him that I feel bad that he does all the work but that I'm very self conscious on top, and he told me that it's okay so .... i guess it's different.)
But if she's anything like me she may be shy or uncomfortable doing certain things ... maybe she's had a bad experience in the past? Maybe she doesn't want to take charge and then disappoint. Maybe she's worried if she does something and it doesn't really work you would laugh or tell your friends or something .... obviously I don't know you and don't know if you'd do anything like that, but these are all things that run through my head when it comes to me.