[escape_thereal_world]

Firstly, she may not feel as cool about it as she portrays. I know when I had my first pregnancy scare, I was comforting the guy...haha. He kept asking me how I was so calm and it was really more of a shock to think I might be pregnant. Maybe your girlfriend is doing something similar.

Or, she may just be calm because neither of you know if she is pregnant or not yet. She should take a pregnancy test 2 weeks from the day you had sex. Try to not worry too much.

Go ahead and talk to her about options though. Make sure she realizes you badly want to care for the baby if she is pregnant. And again, IF she is pregnant, I suggest you both see a counselor whether at Planned Parenthood or somewhere else. They can help you two calmly discuss the options.

But first, she needs to find out if she is pregnant. Discussing your options and wants is a good thing to do though.

Hope it turns out the way you want. Feel free to PM me anytime.