[FranklinF]

i understand wanting to stick up for your aunt but this is really her battle, she will have to express this is her decision and her mother will haveto back off or she wont be a part of the babies life

how old is the older child? what you can do is wrap what you are giving to the baby, and tell him the baby said for thier big brother to open it for them, and get a special box for the baby stuff for him to protect untill the baby is born *ofcourse the last part will only work if the child is like four+*