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Communicate. I know you've asked her to be more dominant, but also, make sure you actually talk to her directly about how it makes you feel. Also, talk to her about what she likes in bed. Maybe she really likes being controlled, and while you may want her to take a more leading roll, at least knowing directly what she likes may help you choose the actions that please her most. Make sure you communicate during sex as well.

In movies, the couple always looks at each other, and suddenly, the perfect sex explosion happens. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that in real life. People will accidentally lean on somebody's hair, someone's foot falls asleep, you know, stuff happens. Communicate. That doesn't mean complete "Well put your hand there" conversations, but instead of just talking before and hope it happens, do something about it. Sometimes, when my boyfriend wants me to dominate, he moves in a way that puts me on top. You can think about doing that, it's a silent way of communicating "This is what I want you to do." Hope this helps a bit!