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My girlfriend is way too passive in bed - January 20th 2012, 11:38 AM
My girlfriend is really passive in bed. She always just lies back and lets (makes) me do everything. She never initiates sex at all then takes a super passive role during the whole thing. I've tried asking her to be more dominant and to initiate sex more quite a few times and she always says she will but she never does. It's starting to really bother me because it means I never really enjoy sex. I mean I don't mind being dominant sometimes but after 3 and a 1/2 years of being together and always having to do everything, it's tiring. Sometimes I just want to be the one lying back and having things done to me, instead of the other way around.

It's getting more difficult because it's making me feel like having sex with somebody who does actually want to be more dominant with me and act like they actually want to have sex, someone who is going to respond passionately and forcefully.

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