Re: Not raped but still traumatized -
December 10th 2011, 09:47 AM
Something similar has happened to me. I understand how you are feeling.
He mustn't have been very sick if he could do that..
I suggest getting it off your chest and talking to him about it. Tell him how it made you feel. So, he can never do this again to you or anyone.
Because you never said no, this is why he kept going. Some guys aren't good with body language and can't see if you are feeling uncomfortable with certain situations or not.
The fact that he kept going while you were crying is something I can relate to. When it happened to me, it was with my ex and he thought the tears were a good thing as a sign as his penis was giving me great pleasure and it was make my eyes water. This wasn't the case, I was crying to him and telling him to stop but he kept going and because of his weight and build I had no chance of pushing him off til he was done.
Afterwards I had spoken to him about it and he said he never realised i was seriously wanting him to stop.
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