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Originally Posted by Acheron
I have to disagree with complimenting a girl at all, let alone on her eyes. By starting a conversation that way, it creates a frame in which you are saying nice things to her in order to win her approval. That's not a good thing: successful frames are those in which she tries to win your approval.
While it may be appropriate to compliment her later in a conversation, you should still avoid the eyes. Hugely cliched. In fact, avoid anything physical, and focus on something she's done well or some aspect of her personality. Makes her feel like you're assessing her on more than just her looks.
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Hey Acheron, I kinda agree with your post, but I think what we're trying to figure out is how to get the girl to want his approval in the first place. Playing hard to get with a girl that doesn't want you to begin with won't work very well.