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Originally Posted by Petey
I am married and still find other men "attractive" and I know my husband still finds other women attractive, because we discuss it openly.
I'd be worried if he didn't notice the hottie walking in the mall with her ass hanging out of her skirt, or didn't have celebrity crushes. Now I don't find any of his friends attractive, they're all either pot heads or drunks...
at least she's being HONEST with you.
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I know it's ok she finds sometimes someone ocasionally attractive, really I'm ok with that, I know I am not the perfect best possible man that has ever been born in the world. But ocasionally, for a moment, without any importance! Not to repeat to me that she finds MY FRIEND attractive couple of times.
I am fully aware it is great she is so honest, but then again, I know I'd feel much much better if she kept it to herself.
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Originally Posted by Astha Srivastav
I'm a girl and have kind of been in the same situation... in fact I still kind of liked my ex-boyfriend till a few months back... it sucks, yes, and I myself felt guilty for such betraying feelings... I love my boyfriend a lot, that I do not doubt, but feeling anything towards my ex kills me on the inside and if I don't tell my present bf about it, then it makes me feel unfaithful towards him...my ex and he were (hopefully are) friends... he doesn't show the pain or hurt which he feels when I talk about my ex and that sucks the most... I try and avoid meeting my ex and seeing him as best as I can... that seems like the only solution to me... your gf can't exactly do that but ask her if she can keep it to a minimum... maybe that'll help...  |
Fortunately my situation is not like that, it's not that much serious, it just makes ME feel uncomfortable. No feelings for anyone from her side are involved - it's just plainly recognizing someone's beauty/charisma/whatever. She never had anyone before me, so luckily I don't have to worry about such things
I KNOW she would never be with anyone she says she finds attractive, that's not problem at all. I didn't understand why she needs to tell me that all the time. But I understand now - guilt and urge to be honest with me. Which is essentialy a good thing.