[TheBabyEater]

Chris went through what is is pretty well! As far as I know, it does not hurt, and if it does they will do everything in their power to keep it from hurting too much, they can even help you manage the pain.

The doctors who handle rape kits are very kind doctors who are there to help you, not harm you. If you're having trouble in it, they WILL help you through it, never will they force you to do anything you don't want to. It is your decision whether or not to do every step of a rape kit, as Chris said. You're in control, not them.

Even if you don't get the examination (I never did like the term "rape kit" I think examination is less scary) it's a good idea to get checked out, even if you don't report it, for a few reasons. (which I think everyone should report it, even if I never did) For one, you could have gotten hurt and don't know it. Then there's the chance of some STD or pregnancy. I know it's scary but the doctors can help with any problem. Remember, they're there to help, not harm.