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Originally Posted by sergio926

Hey girls! I'm a guy and i need help dressing nicer! Not too flashy, not too out there, just something that might catch girl's eyes. I just lost a crapload of weight and i never really dressed well in the first place. I wear a lot of t-shirts. bands t-shirts, etc. But I'm really not getting many looks from girls because I just look so plain. I started wearing flannels a little more and i like them. I just don't know where to start on dressing better.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru

This is going to be coming from a guy, But really if you want to get noticed by a girl youll have to do what is called peacocking. Show yourself as a potential guy in there life. Sure you will have to dress with what makes you, well you. But try going a lil classier. maybe add a playful either suit or sports coat.

Or if you want to go with your current style get close that fit. and add some a accessories. Like add a leather bracelet, a couple of rings, and maybe a necklace. But ones that will go with your style.

You cant also relay on how you dress alone. You also have to put yourself out there. And when you do show confidence. walk with a meaning in your step. even if you dont have much confidence just act as you do. and in time that feeling of confidence will blend in with your personality. if you need anymore help just shoot me a message i do have some knowledge.

I am also a dude. Something I would ask that Shikamaru is- how old are you? In high school or early college the suit/ sport coat might not go over so well unless you are in a little bit more of a formal setting. It can, hoever be pulled off depending on the pants and stuff you wear (I like the look when it is pulled off like Dr. Gregory House in "House")

I'd prefer a well-fitting solid-colored button down and some good looking blue jeans for a casual setting, and you can always add khakis and tuck the shirt in if you need slightly more formal.

I do like Shikamaru's advice about the accessories. Just one little thing that is out of the ordinary and perhaps sentimental to you can get the ladies to be like "hm... what is that?" and voila! A conversation has started. Conversely, if a young lady is wearing something out of the ordinary or whatever, YOU can ask her the same thing, and another conversation has started.