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Re: Parents and me dating - November 27th 2011, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Koharuchan View Post
My parents were the same way when I first started dating, they were all upset that I had a boyfriend, but they didn't stop me. They were just very vigilant and supervised everything. -_-

As for your parents reacting badly, the biggest reason was probably that you were keeping it a secret. You should probably apologize to them for not telling them before, and sit down and have a talk with them. Explain that you are 15, and you feel that you are old enough to start dating. Explain that you care about this girl very much and try to come to some sort of comprimise with them; make it a calm conversation and try to be as mature as possible, it may help them see that you are mature and responsible enough to start dating. Good luck!
I did apologize to them and they have forgiven me somewhat. I also tried speaking with them and they said that they don't care if I date ,but they think I am to young to be inviting them to house for dates and stuff like that. They want me to keep it strictly outside but I can see a problem arising from that. I tried telling my parents that they should meet her but they don't want to get involved. How can I get them to meet and make them realize nothing bad will happen? I will ask again if they want to meet her for dinner because my parents have to know the full truth and light behind this.