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So... do you girls really care much for the shy guy?
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I do, I like the shy guys. They're almost always nice and respectful.
However, I've found that what I need is someone who is more assertive and outgoing. In the case of the shy guys I often find myself wearing the pants in the relationship, which is a role I absolutely hate. I've tried to get a couple of my shy boyfriends to be a bit more decisive and active, but it fails and I'd rather not try to change the guy when I know I can't.
I don't see many shy guys being conversationalists or being able to match my energy, they're often too passive. If there are shy guys that are quite talkative and more assertive once they come out of their shell, please raise your hand to let me know that you exist.
So yes, I like shy guys, but I don't at the same time. haha