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Re: Dating and Friends - October 26th 2011, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by iLikeToMoveIt View Post
Keyword-- you're FRIENDSHIPS. You're lovelife shouldn't be implicated by your friends' feelings. They like you, you like someone that sounds pretty great. Tough **** for them, harsh as it may sound, you shouldn't change what works for you to suit other people, even if they are close to you. Ted sounds like a creep. I'm sorry, he just does. I'm sure you know him in real life, and it seems quite different there, but it's strange and also a form of sexual harrassment for him to keep talking to you in such a way if you don't want him to. You shouldn't have to deal with ANYONE implicating that you are inevitably going to have sex with them. And for future reference (I'm not implying that you meant anything by it, I've been in similar situations myself), if a guy likes you, cuddling is enough of a sign that you like him back for him to run with it.
I know that cuddling is a sign, its just we're best friends so I figured he didn't think anything of it either. It was really cold out anyway. I know that their friendships, its just I hate hurting people, especially those close to me.

Aparently Jacob thought Danielle and Shannon were serious about going to see the movie at the same time as my date, and so he got mad when I said he couldn't come. Why would he want to come on my date anyway if he likes me? Seems like the last thing I'd want to be doing


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