[PSY]

You shouldn't have to choose between friends and dates/potential boyfriends. I think you should go on this date and enjoy yourself! =) Let Jacob figure things out on his own. Unfortunately, you are always going to meet people who will like you. Does that mean you should have to abstain from dating other people until they stop liking you? Nope! Should you suspend your own desires in order to please everyone else? Nope! Not all feelings are returned - that's just life. Jacob will have to accept that eventually. As for Tim... he sounds like a real creep. He may not be the type to force himself on you, but he's still saying stuff that makes you feel uncomfortable. I'd have a chat with him about it - maybe get one of your girl friends to back you up, if they've overheard him say anything you mentioned.