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Re: [Relationship/Dating Advice] I'm crap at this :| - October 13th 2011, 06:59 AM

When I was in primary school, a stick insect jumped on my head. Those things can gather a lot of confidence when they feel like it .

I think a double date would be a good idea - as long as you don't spend the whole time talking to your friend, which is what girls often do on double dates. I like what Ryan said about doing something social, so you can get to know each other. And maybe try not to make it something couple-y? Something like ten-pin bowling would be great because it's casual and fun; it makes it much less awkward.

Also, if this guy has seen you around, then he is probably well-aware that you are shy. And he obviously likes that about you. Don't worry about being too shy. Most people are nervous on first dates; you aren't going to be any worse than any other 20-year-old on a first date.

But you should definitely go on a date with him, even if it isn't a double date. You are such a wonderful person, you deserve this.

And then you should come here afterwards and tell us everything that happened .



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