[fou4thdimension]

I have to agree with what many have said. Don't give up the scholarship and your future. You are still young, and until you're put in the situation where you realize what you've just given up and can't have it again, it's a bad place to be. It'd be best to take the scholarship and to talk to your bf. Where there's a will, there's a way. You'll be able to find a way to make things work with him still in military and you at school.