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Re: Dating an ex - September 26th 2011, 10:36 PM

The choice is completely up to you. For me, I was seeing this guy, J, from November of 2006 until December of 2008 when he broke up with me. We were both going in different directions, but it wasn't a mutual break up. I was willing to try to make things work while he wasn't. I was single for almost a month, and in January of 2009, I began dating my current boyfriend Kris. We've been together ever since.

It was a decision for me that worked. I don't like to be alone, and I had been in love with Kris since I met him when I was 16, almost directly before I started dating J. Nothing came of it then since I was younger, he was over 18, and he had a girlfriend of 2.5 years by then.

If you're both willing to give it a try, I don't see a problem with it. Of course, he is an ex for a reason, and since you know the circumstances of which you've broken up, and things will be better off now than they were then, there should be no issue.

If you're questioning it, maybe you should sit down and evaluate everything before taking a plunge into a new relationship right away.











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