[VampirePrincess]

I'm on an online dating site, and I find that typically after a lot of messages writing on the site gets too inconvenient and I just ask if there's a better way to contact them or I just hand over my number and say "text me sometime, since I'm not signing on here a lot right now."

My schedule is always insanely busy so whenever I have a free moment I just make plans. Something easy, too. Public place of course, at a time when you have an easy excuse to leave if something doesn't go well. Like I used to meet people on my lunch break because if something went wrong and I didn't come back, someone would notice...plus I could easily say "well, my break is over, I need to get back to work" if I got uncomfortable.

Since I like to remain very much in the public eye on first dates I usually go to malls. Besides, it's amazing what you can find out about people by watching them window shop All we have here are malls and casinos though, and since I'm still a year too young for the casino, the mall it is. If you have a better option where you live, then go there instead.