Thank y'all for your advice. I am going to wait until the perfect moment and until I've thought about the symbol for a long time. Either a butterfly, dove, or words like "faith", "hope", or "believe". As of right now I'm really considering the dove, b/c it's a huge symbol of hope, new beginnings, and serenity (like butterflies), but it's a little more grownup, and it also symbolizes faith as well. I've been thinking about just a simple outline, or making it more henna like with abstract details.
I still would love a butterfly, but I'm just not sure if that's too young. I'm probably going to save the words for my hips (my other
SH place) when I'm truly recovered from
sh. The one on my wrist is going to be more helpful for blatant
sh or suicidal ideations.