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Re: would you stay with your girlfriend if she got pregnant - September 8th 2011, 03:02 PM

For whatever reason, TeenHelp wasn't letting me answer the poll so I'll just put the answer here.

I know I'm a female, but if I was male and got my girlfriend pregnant, 'Yes I would stay with her despite her choice'.

My thoughts are: it takes two people to get pregnant. Not just one. It wouldn't be fair to my 'girlfriend' if I just up and left (again, this is all in POV if I were a guy). She'd be dealing with the stresses of making a decision on what to do, and whatever her decision would be, it would be extremely difficult, and I'd want to be there for her during that hard time.

If I no longer had feelings for her, yet she got pregnant (during which time we broke up, but the baby would still be mine), I wouldn't get back together with her for the sake of the baby, but I would do whatever was in my power to be there for her and the baby, and be supportive both physically, mentally and financially.











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