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Originally Posted by blumemusik
But of course, if it turns out he IS interested, I advise you to be careful. How old is he? 16? 17? 18? He probably has sexual urges which you are probably too young to fulfill. I'm being stereotypical, yes, but it is quite unlikely that an 18-year-old will go out with a 14-year-old (guessing ages) because he wouldn't be able to have sex.
I would advise you to look around guys your own age. Is there nobody in school you get on with well? Relationships with guys your own age will be more likely to be at a pace you can deal with.
Whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck.
Stay safe!<3
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Indeed, he's 17. I've thought about that kind of situation, because I'm definitely not looking for anything sexual right now. Especially after reading this, I'm kind of leaning toward the thought of him just wanting to be friends. I'm not sure if I may even seem like a little-sister figure to him? I wonder if that would be possible?
The guys who are around my age are mostly guys I've known for at least 3 years. A lot of us are actually just close friends--like brothers. Some of them have admitted to liking me before, but that was like way back in elementary school, so, no biggie really. So basically, I've been around the same guys for quite a while now, and none of them really seem like the boyfriend type to me. I think that the best option for me would be to wait till highschool, when they're are hundreds of new people, but like I said, I'd really like a relationship now. ;p
thank you a lot for the advice, it helps greatly!
