i know how you feel. my current fiance and i just miscarried but it was scary when i first found out because i am in the military and have seen him in over a month when i told him he freaked and told me i have to get an abortion since we are both 18. like you i am totally against them and we split for like a week because of it but now we are back together and happy he got scared and appologized for trying to get me to have an abortion and like a friend of mine told me babys change men and i agree with her 100% they seem to get super scared at first but turn around and want it and cant wait
when we found out a misscarried about a week ago it was devastating but god wanted it that way. i am not on birth control and we never use a condom dangerous i know since we are young but we both have agreed on it and since we are getting married next year and hes like rich i guess i dont have much to worry about when it comes to taking care of a baby but it is still a scary thing.
PM me any time you want im always here if you have any questions about anything
