[FairyPoppins]

For Heaven's sake, he is not staying with your for a fucking holiday, he is there because he got kicked out!

So please stop treating him like a guest and offering him drinks and snacks every 10 minutes.

I don't care if he is your grandson, he will be nothing but a failure if he doesn't get his act together soon.

And yes, I know you did the same for me years ago, but that was after I had spent months with an abusive drug addict in a "converted" garage. He has just been sitting around for the last year doing nothing, so don't feel sorry for him! All he had to do was go to bed before the sun came up and stop eating our parents out of house and home. Oh and actually bother to look for a job, instead of fobbing us off all the time. But he couldn't even do that. And now he's just sponging off of you, a pensioner, and doing it behind our parent's backs as usual.