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Re: I may be pregnant and he wants abortion - August 15th 2011, 01:49 AM

Planned Parenthood can help set you up with assistance if you decide to keep the baby. They can help find places for you to live, rent assistance, food assistance, all sorts of organizations which can help you with raising your child, or you can put the baby up for adoption. They counsel you and provide you with all the information you need.

If you would regret an abortion, do not stay with somebody who will make you have one. You have choices. This is something you are against. YOU make the decision. Talk with him, figure out why he doesn't want a child. Obviously you are young, but there are ways you can afford a child at a young age as a couple or as a single parent.

I would suggest going to Planned Parenthood for a test and if it is positive, then you should ask them for information on your options and maybe counseling as a couple. If you are not pregnant, I still suggest talking to your boyfriend about why he doesn't want a child if it were to happen accidentally. This is a HUGE issue that needs to be addressed, because accidents DO happen.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me.
Also, welcome to TeenHelp. I hope we are able to help you

Kelly