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Another was it rape thread =3 - August 12th 2011, 02:42 PM
I have a friend who is 100% convinced she was raped. (Ironically after she found out about my own past) Her story?

She had a boyfriend that wanted to have sex and she didn't. He didn't force her, physically or emotionally. She just regrets having sex with him since the relationship ended so horribly. According to her, he wasn't that good at it. A bit rough, but she never even said no or was in any way incapable of saying no. (Intoxicated, drugged, forced, whatever)

Honestly, it pisses me off that she's tried to convince me she was 'raped.' Just because you regret having sex with someone -after- the relationship ended, doesn't mean you have the right to claim he raped you. It upsets me because... (trying to figure out how to word this in a way that doesn't sound stupid) but it seems like she gives us other victims like. A bad name of some sort. I've spent years getting over my past, deciphering it, remembering it, forgetting it, and fighting it. I've gotten to the point where I can actually talk about it to some people, even help others who have gone through similar situations, then she comes along and cries rape when I'm personally doubting if it ever was.

This is a turn of events too, later she said that it was rape because he said that he would break up with her if she didn't have sex with him. And? She could have left him =/ It's not like they had been going out for years and years and were madly in love, or it's not like he threatened to hurt her or her life or her friends. Just that he would get sex somewhere else. I still don't think it's rape. I think it's her giving into some low life guy.

So long story short, how do I even begin to deal with this? I'm hardly friends with this girl anymore, because of all the crap she's pulled on me. But for whatever reason it irks me that I could ever be so close to someone that lies about rape. (She didn't just give me this sob story, she's told pretty much everyone she hang out with) Sometimes it bugs me so much I get worse in my own struggle from the past -.-


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