Congrats on being pregnant. Even though you're not pregnant already, you might as well think you are because at the rate you're going you will be. If you want to have sex, then have sex but remember you said:
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I'm not ready to have a baby because I wouldn't be able to give the child the life I had growing up.
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As mentioned, contraception isn't killing a fetus or embryo, it prevents it from ever been made. You're asking your priest, parents, us and everyone else except yourself. I'm not talking about the morality of having sex because it's irrelevant, you've already had sex regardless if you're happy about it. Instead, ask yourself if you support aborting or adopting your soon-to-be baby because it's going to happen. Also ask yourself why you don't support contraception because it seems you haven't thought it out, you just agreed with your religious views yet it's obvious you don't fully agree.
You're living in the past by always mentioning your previous sexual relationships and how they turned out bad. They're irrelevant because you're with someone else. Personally, when I have a girlfriend I do expect sex or at the very least, oral sex.
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Even if there's no god, you dont have the right to be rude to people you've never even met. And I'm not stupid. I guarantee my IQ is higher than yours.
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I know you were addressing someone else, however, your statement includes everyone. It's a two-sided sword, I have the right to be as rude as I want to you even if it makes you jump off a bridge to kill yourself and I have the right to be as nice to you, even if it makes you love the world. Are you suggesting if I did meet you in-person that I then have the right to be rude to you? If I did, I'm sure you would chime, "you don't have the right to be rude to me".
However, this is all a farce because you were rude in return to someone you never met before and had no problem doing so. I'm not intending to debate you here (go to the debate section if you wish to debate with myself or someone else).