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Originally Posted by devs711
I have to make a huge generalization for this, but here goes. From my experience, when two guys that are friends get mad at each other they just push each other around a bit physically and thats it. But, when 2 girls that are friends get mad at each other they go behind the other ones back and spread rumors or hold grudges for weeks on end for even the smallest misunderstanding. Why do girls make it all so much "worse" than it really is? I'm sorry if I offended anyone, and I realize that not all girls do this, but a lot seem to, and I can never understand it.
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i know where you're coming from; girls can be complete bitches most of the time.
girls don't want to physically fight. usually because, stereotypically speaking here, it's not the 'right thing' to do. you don't see girls fighting these days - even the stereotypical 'catfights' don't really happen between good friends (in fact, i dont think ive ever seen a 'catfight'..). therefore they feel like, in order to get that almost 'thrill' of the physical fight, they should bitch about the person that's annoyed them behind their back. it's a way of releaving themselves from the tension of the grudge their holding (because, actually, it feels a lot better after getting things off your chest rather than keeping it to yourself which can actually lead to depression n' whatnot (scientific genious, me :P)).
some girls bitch about others purely because they're jealous of the other. i know that i've fallen into this trap before without really knowing it... it's a physcological thing, i think.
and really, girls think that by explaining how 'terrible' or 'horrible' someone's been to them, by talking about this person to other people it'll make them hate the person in context too. having people agreeing with you on how bad someone's been acting just feels
good but it's not neccessarily the right thing to do.. or even if they've only done the slightest incy wincy thing to annoy them. i'm someone who does blow things completely out of proportion, i must admit, and that's only because i might feel like that persons broken my trust by telling someone a secret that i didn't want anyone to know or even just not commented on a new haircut or whatever :S
but overall some girls are just plain pathetic. but you just have to remember that yes, not all girls are like it! some girls are genuinely nice and won't bitch and moan and bitch some more. if someone's done something to offend them; they will just say something straight out. some girls just need that extra reassurance from other people to agree with them by making the smallest situation ten times worse, especially if they've got a low self-esteem or self-confidence. and that, my dear, is why i think girls make it so much 'worse' than what it really is..