[Angel]

If you aren't on any form of contraception, you are risking pregnancy each time you have sex. It wouldn't be fair for your child if you were to bring him/her into this world unprepared. Premarital sex isn't really acceptable if you are going by religion, and so is birth control and abortion. There really isn't anything I can say to make you feel better about this.

I'm Catholic too. :) I don't think it is a sin to be having sex with someone you love. We use birth control because we want to take family planning into our own hands. That means using contraception until we want to start a family. You should not feel guilty about using condoms. It is a responsible act. If you are mature enough to be having sex, you should be mature enough to take this into your own hands.