hey guys
So I'm catholic and birth control is kind of a sticky topic for me. Me and my boyfriend kind of argue about it a lot. I refuse to use the pill, and I dont know if I want to use condoms either. The guy I lost my virginity to didnt want to use one, and I really didnt know how to ask him. Then the next guy said he didnt like wearing them either, so I just went with it (it wasnt a good relationship). Now I'm in love with my boyfriend, and he wants to use condoms. he says that its because he cares about me, but I feel guilty when we use them. Sometimes we do, and sometimes we dont, but I always feel nervous the whole time if we do.
Should I just give in? That's what I'm used to doing. But part of me wants to stand my ground, and not use them. I dont even know what to think anymore...