Re: rape or just sex? -
August 2nd 2011, 05:38 PM
It sounds like a drunken mistake to be honest. It sounded like almost like a date rape UNTIL you had asked "am i tight". so you werent like passed out or anything, you were just intoxicated . that doesnt make it right what he did, but he was probably drunk as well. the fact that you were able to ask him questions means that its not really a date rape. it was a drunken mistake. everyone makes mistakes when they are drunk, and I think it would be best to just try not to think about it. I mean , what he did was really bad, I would never even halfway consider having sex with a girl who was that intoxicated. I think someone needs to go beat him up or something, but I do not think it is something that he needs his life ruined over. He was drunk as well. And you were talking, and you never said no.
I am truely sorry this happened to you. It isnt your fault. although ts not rape, its certainly not 100 percent consensual; you were half a beer away from it being rape. He definetely took advantage of you in a sick way, he is definetely a jerk, but it isnt rape.
Definetely do not talk to this scumbag ever again. I hope someone beats the shit out of him cause what he did was horrible.
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