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Originally Posted by crimsontears

i cant meet him face to face until they let me go down there in order to show them, they don't trust my personal judgement at all. and if someone is a bad person i get vibes bad vibes and with him i got none. i felt comfortable around him. like i could trust him.

Well, to be completely honest, telling them that you wanted to move in with him before meeting in person is alarming enough for them to be skeptical about your judgment.

You don't feel "bad vibes" around him because you've never been around him. There's no way to gauge how you'll feel around him before you are actually around him. And your parents won't be receptive to your plight if you keep behaving so passionate about him. It is frustrating, I've been exactly in your position. But demonstrating such violent passion for someone you've never met will put your parents off of letting you meet him. You need to tone it down when you're talking to them about it.