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I suggest you talk to your midwife or OB about this. As well as possibly a counselor. As a mom, I look at your situation and think "Its not the baby's fault he wasn't ready to man up" Trust me, now is not the time to be concerned with guys, spend the next few months enjoying your pregnancy and then just enjoy your baby. Good guys are out there that don't care if you have kids. I met my fiance when my son was a little over a year old. (I spent my entire pregnancy split up from his father, then we got back together before he was born and then divorced when he was 6 months old) I spent the time in between my ex husband and my current fiance just enjoying being a mom to this wonderful little boy, then when I least expected it this great guy just fell in my lap. It will happen for you too, when the time is right. Just take this time to adjust to the fact that you are about to be a mom.