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Re: Was it rape? - July 4th 2011, 03:15 AM
Hi Nikki,

Being raped definitely was not your fault.
Yes, you were drunk, which possibly made your ability to stand up for yourself limited, but it also proves that he took advantage of you which is wrong and illegal.
You will not get in any trouble because of this, it wasn't your fault and he's the one in the wrong here and you were the victum.
Every person is different when it comes to alcohol or anything similar, everyone has a different amount that makes them drunk, some people can drink a couple drinks and be drunk while others can drink a few drinks and still be fine, whether your friends think you were drunk or not doesn't really matter in this, you know yourself that you were drunk therefore him getting in trouble for taking advantage of you will be most likely and I believe the jury will believe you.
I think you should file the police report against him, he deserves it and you deserve to see something happen to him for hurting you.

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